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Tuesday, March 08, 2005

ImMobile

I am mobile-less today...because in my happiness to get out of office, yours truly left her mobile behind. -_- And when I realised it, I was already in bus. And, not wanting to waste my already-paid bus fare, I didn't go back to office to take it lor.

Hope that it will still be on my table when I return tomorrow! *prays hard*

Anyway. I have been reading this book.... Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. It's a must-read...for people who are dating and are truly serious about each other. After I have read this book...I finally understood how guys function (at times) and why they behave the way they do when faced with certain situations.

And I realised that I am a damn good gf! Muahahaha.

And I realised that mr clement is a damn lousy bf! Muahahaha.

LoL~ I told my guy-friend (who recommended this book to me) about this...and he was like, "don't use it as an excuse okay..." Heh~ Of course I am not. But hey, at least I know I am not that bad...hehe. But we both agreed, that after reading this book, you will know why your bf/gf behaves the way they do...and so you will tend to be more patient with him/her.

I know this for sure, because in the past, whenever I didn't get to meet mr clement, I would try to "insist" that we chat on the phone and all...but then now, it's okay for me lar. I know I have to give him space and time for himself...to do the things he want....and that, I should do my own stuffs too....like spending "me-time" that sorta thing...

It's like, all the negative feelings are disappearing...it's more like, I am really understanding that "space" which he craves for so long and I am always preventing him from having it. Heh~ Hard to explain...but there's this analogy.... Men are like Rubber Bands. I think it's quite true!!!

They need to get further before they can get closer...so which means they can be very nice and wonderful to you (the girl), and then they will slowly drift away (usually it's because of their natural reaction...forgot what the book said) and then it will come to a point whereby they realise that having your presence is better...they will come back, closer than ever. :)

I never understood when this happened to mr clement...simply because whenever he drifts away my brain starts thinking all the worse-possible scenarios and so...everything goes downhill. And usually when I lash out at him it's the point whereby he's drifting the furtherest and ready to come back...and so I guess that's why it always hurts a lot... Hm...

So interesting ah. I must force mr clement to read the book...because there's one part whereby Women are like Waves....so she will reach the peak...then will start going downhill....and while going downhill she's gonna need her partner's support lor. clement never understood this...I shall make him read. Muahaha!

In the first place, this book actually belonged to him. -_- He wanted to act "intellectual", so he spent 21 bucks on the book in Borders. But he barely made it halfway through the book. Guys!

Anyway, with this new knowledge that I have acquired from this book, I feel like a whole new person. :) And I feel like I finally know how to handle this relationship of ours.

Very glad. Heh~

Stunningly Gorgeous Y 10:39 PM