Was lying on the bed thinking about me at large...and my life at large...and my relationship at large. LoL~ I suddenly thought.... I am a damn bloody great girlfriend to have.
So cheesy of me right? :p
Let me list the things why I think I am so good.
First, I am domesticated...when I want to. I clean the floors, wash the clothes, iron the clothes, pack the house, mend my clothes...the typical things that housewives do too. I fix things around the house when they are damaged or worn. But I don't really know how to cook...but I'm learning a lot now...because I have to cook on weeknights when my parents aren't in. So I experiment with stuffs here and there lor.....
Second, I am IT-savvy enough...I can tell the difference between a motherboard and a CPU (many girls don't), I can fix up a computer on my own, I can do troubleshooting on the computer when it freaks on me, I know enough to edit a midi file and make it into a ringtone to send to my mobile, I know how to fix all my pictures so that it looks good....my html were self-thought before programs such as Frontpage came to life.
Third, I am artistically inclined enough (I think). LoL~ I joined a choir, watched and understand musicals, and I play the piano. And not just normal classical pieces...I can compose, I can improvise on music...I can listen to a song on radio once and play it on the piano...chords and all. The only not-so-good part is that my sight-reading is like shit. Hahaha.
Fourth, I am a perfect girlfriend. I don't whine when the boyfriend doesn't speak to me on the phone everynight. I am independent enough to do things on my own when the boyfriend isn't free. I do not nag at the boyfriend over the slightest little things he does (ie. stare at the TV even when I am talking to him). I do not expect him to keep me company at all times. I give him his own space and time to do the things he want to do. I even encourage him to spend more time with his friends. I do not make any demands on him which I know will put him in a difficult spot.
Such a long list! So far among all my female friends I have never met another exactly like me. Among all my friends I'm always the one who is most IT-savvy and the one who is most sensible of the lot. Someone told me I might just scare away any potential boyfriends because I am too powerful for them. LoL~ But I'm not.
For too long, I didn't have a boyfriend. For too long, I had to do everything myself. All that I know now was acquired from the days I didn't have a boyfriend. I asked, probed, learnt from others around me. And these are the things I will have for now, and forever. Too bad for the guys who were scared away by my powerful-ness lorrrr.
But hor...I got a few things which I am not "there" yet lar. I cannot drive. Haha. And I don't look polished at all times. In other words, I don't look perfect. Perfect I mean by: Earrings that match your clothes that match your shoes that match your bag. And having a good hair with a perfect make up on at all times. And I mean at all times...even when you are doing sports okay.
So if I finally get my licence and also learn a bit more on how to doll myself up...I will be a perfect girlfriend to have liao lar! LoL~~~ By then nobody will want me liao. boohoohoo~
Anyway I think clement must be damn fortunate to have me lar. LoL~ I value-added him so much in his life ok. I introduced him to anime webbies and taught him how to download to watch. I taught him how to fix his computer when it haywires a lot. I gave him the software he needed when he re-formated his computer. I introduced him to plays and brought him to one when I knew he would enjoy it. I gave him my full support when he couldn't find a job and was so down. And after he got a job, I advised him how to plan his finances, that he should buy insurance policies, and invest in some shares that looked good.
I am sooo great. And thinking about it, his value-addedness to me is like so little compared to from me to him. He only complements me on 1 thing: He drives while I don't. Hahaha. So no choice lor. But we both are too slack to look polished. And guess what? After seeing that his colleague had a so-polished girlfriend, he said it would be good if I am like her.
What's the point? If the girlfriend looks good but you look so slack yourself, people will think that you look sooo mismatched man. And if you are so slack, no polished person will bother looking at you also lar...not to say fall for you larrrrrr.
That's why a male friend of mine...always told me to go tell clement count his blessings and better start treating me better and treasure me more.
Wahahahaha~
Stunningly Gorgeous Y 1:58 PM
