Today is 05-05-05! Such a nice date. Hahaha. So it's also known as the.... May Day! (Self-proclaim sia)
Talking about dates I always thought that if I do ever get married one day, I must marry on a special date! like 09-09-09, or 08-08-08, sounds very auspicious and very nice right? Hahaha. If I marry on 2008 or 2009....it will be just nice lor. Supposed to be of marriageable age mah. LoL~ So before 2010 comes (10-10-10 doesn't seems as good leh), I have to get myself married off lor! Wahahaha.
Realised my previous post was a wee tat egoistic. Having PMS mah...thinking of all sorts of nonsense lately. As I always say, my imagination just runs wild when the pink days are drawing near. It's not that I want, it's just that, I can't control! Anyway I suddenly remembered that I DO know someone who's like me, just that she's even better than me lar. So if it's between us only, she will win hands-down lar. hehe. But it's okay lar. I am happy being me.
I know enough and am independent enough to do most things myself, so that's good. I don't like the feeling of having to rely on someone else for a simple task like getting a new hard drive for my computer...or installing a new DVD-rom. I can hands-on! And I can do it the way I want it. It's quite funny, the other time I was fixing up this new computer of mine, clement wanted to help. But since I know what's happening and I want to do things MY way, I refused to let him touch a single thing lor. So he just sat there, held my tools and watched me. LoL~ Yay...girl power yah! :p
Oh yah, 03 May was me and clement's 2nd year anniversary. So fast! We've tolerated each other for 2 years liao ah. Haha. that's because clement was telling me he used to think that anniversaries are boh liao...becoz it's like counting the number of days that the couple has tolerated each other. -_- This kind of thing also can think until like that. Depends mah. Some couples love to celebrate every month. Some couples prefer it half-yearly. And as for me and clement, apart from the 1st month, we only celebrate on the real day lor...
Sad hor. Anyway we also didn't had a chance to celebrate our 2nd year anniversary. We went out the day before (2 May) and then had dinner at Spageddes, and then after that we go shopping lor. The only probable difference was that I gave him a pressie lar. It's like an anniversary gift for him lor. And guess what? He actually admitted he bought my pressie like 15 mins before he met me. Bleah. How nice of him yah.
But it's okay lar. He already spent lots of money buying stuffs for me when he went Aussie liao mah. Haha. I didn't take a photo of the pressie I gave him though. It's a wire-namestand lar. Got it made in Bugis one fine day while walking past the shop. Actually I got motive one! Hahaha. Give him namestand hor, so that he can put in office. And everyone will know that his girlfriend gave that to him one...so....if got any female colleagues have any funny ideas, they should think twice lor. LoL~
So evil of me right. Haha. If not his colleagues dunno of my existence sia.
Oh. And every night/day when clement goes to work, he will definitely see it and it will remind him of me. Wahahaha. That's the most important part okay. Since he don't like to put photos (he must always act cool...bleah), so the namestand is the next most probable thing he can put on his office table lor. Haha.
Anyway 2nd May was our official celebration date because on 3rd May he was stuck in office till 8.30pm lar. Haiz. Somemore it was supposed to be his off day de...but he couldn't get away lor. And for some reason I was especially whiny that day...so I whined and whined (via sms) that we meet...and so he said he would rush home straight after his meeting and then get the car to drive down to meet me. So happy.
And so we met for supper lar! Hehe. And since my pink days are coming, my appetite was exceptionally good. It seemed like I ate 2 dinners lor. -_- Hopefully my metabolism increased (because of pink days) so that everything I ate can digest lor.
Have been feeling quite happy about us lately, it's like, we are just falling into this steady rhythm whereby we both complement each other, and I'm feeling pretty good. I'm glad that between the 2 of us, we still have our own space to do our own things, and so when we meet, the time spent together is really quality, because we want to be around each other...not because we have to.
Been talking to a friend of mine, realise that he always spends his weekends with his girl. Not that it's no good, but in a long run this arrangement tends to have its side-effects lar. I won't elaborate on their problems, but in some way, I learnt that being in a couple, both sides have to give and take lor. The guy cannot always be the one giving, because no matter how wonderfully patient he is, there will come to this point called the "breaking point" lor, because guys still have an awful strong sense of pride and that egoistic streak in him one lar.
Anyway with this same friend, we have had lots of debates on marriage, co-habitation, LDR...haha...so on and so forth. For once it's nice to have someone of the opposite gender to talk about all these issues with, because my dearest clement is so-not for talking this kind of thing with lor. And of course can get to know what the opposite gender is thinking about and what things matter to them actually lar.
So fun. Hehe. Nice to have him around to entertain me during the long work hours and then challenge me mentally when we get into such debates. If not staring at wires/papers/computers all day will give me a super big headache lar!!!
And both of us are students of the Mars and Venus book lor! Hahaha. We both agreed that after reading that book we tend to realise certain things and learn to "see open" liao. Haha. It helped greatly for me, and this relationship between me and clement lar. If not I think we both will haywire until dunno where liao also. LoL~
Realise I very lor soh. Haha. Better go bathe and sleep le. But I so sad! I couldn't get my 10 seasons of friends! So sad so SAD! >.<
Stunningly Gorgeous Y 10:21 PM
