I am glad to announce that I have had a very fulfilling week. :)
Probably mainly because I finally met up with people I-haven't-seen-for-a-long-time.
Monday I met the bestie.
Tuesday I met the Prez.
Wednesday I didn't meet anyone.
Thursday I met some of the Gang.
Friday I met my good friend, as well as the year 1 classmates!
Seems like I have been busy!! Heh.
Actually all are last minute affairs, on-the-spur-of-moment kind of thing. I like!!
I realize that it's quite tough meeting and catching up with friends, now that everyone's busy with work. And not only that, busy with OT as well. But anyway, like I told my good friend, if there's someone who's making the time to meet you, and you have got some time to spare, it's important to make the appointment. :)
Sometimes when you reject this once you will never know when the next time you actually get to meet.
And with a boyfriend in tow it is just gonna get harder to meet friends because weekends are precious with the boyfriend.
Also I found that now that we meet up where most of us are in the working world, conversations are often centered around jobs, salary, OT, sai-kang, jobs, money...the like. Haha. Was teasing my friend last night on when he's gonna get married. Tee-hee. He said it's there, but not getting there yet. Reason being his gf is earning more than him right now, so must wait until he earns more than her. Wahaha.
So ego la!!
But I believe him la. Most guys like to feel like they can provide for their other half, provide for their family. The minority prefers to live off their girlfriends. Some of my guy friends think like that too. My own boyfriend included. Haha.
We are all still idealistic people ma. I think when it comes to the idealistic vs. realistic divide, we will most probably have a different view towards things.
My friend is going for CFA. I wish him best of luck. The passing rate is 38% in Singapore lo. It's gonna be tough, not to mention darn ex. Hee.
Hmm. Feeling bored today. Haha. Like after so many days of going out, catching with friends, suddenly I have nothing to do this weekend.
CNY is also finishing le!! Tomorrow is the Chinese Valentine's or what we call, Yuan Xiao Jie.
My grand total for ang bao is only $170. Haha. This money hopefully can last me till I find a job ba.... :P
And this year I already supposingly got more angbao already because I had extra 2 angbaos. LoL. But I missed out on my grandma's side because this year we all no bai nian.
But hor, I am quite happy because my relatives all give me $10, $12 angbao. Maybe because I older liao. Haha. Last time only $6. Heehee.
My aunt is so cute...she tell me go find a good job and get a good husband. LOL. Good job, yes. But good husband? Aiyo, dunno where to find la.
I think good job is more important. Haha.
Good husband depends on fate la. Or maybe not getting married is also considered a good thing. :P
I had a dream last night also!! I dreamt that my boyfriend's mom wanted me to marry my boyfriend. I don't remember the reason but I think it's something quite stupid.
Anyway she insisted that we have to arrange a meet-parents-session with my parents and then we have to quickly get married. I don't know why but I was very angry. Like angry for forcing us get married and angry with the reason that she wanted us to be married for. (I still can't remember the reason!!) So I flew in a rage and started telling her I don't see why we have to listen and get married and I think I was indignant because she wanted us to be married at the kopitiam at my house downstairs. LoL.
The best part? My boyfriend never raised any objection even when I voiced out to him and he just go like, "marry must pay a lot of money leh".
Wah lau so I got even more angry.
And then I woke up and was sweating away.
What a damn cheesy dream right!!! Suddenly made me wonder what if I had to get married like in 1 month's time because me and the boyfriend's "Eight Characters" will make us unable to marry for the next 20 years. Will I actually go ahead and get married or will I actually think of dragging it. Haha.
So with reference to my dream I was thinking about this for quite some time before I hop out of bed today. Haha.
I still don't know the answer la. But I know that I won't want to marry in haste and then forfeit all my plans. I still have plans for my future one leh...getting married now is like thwarting it so I won't allow it to happen.
At least in the past I factored in marriage as part of my future plan but now ah, I have decided that marriage is something very hard to plan for, especially if both hearts are not as one. So I have factored it out already.
That's why the other day someone asked me how many years am I going to work before settling down, I was dumbfounded.
I don't know how many years lo. I only know that first, I gonna clear my debt, secondly, I gonna have some kind of substantial savings and thirdly, I am gonna ensure I have got good investments at hand (ie. bluechip shares) before I should consider settling down.
So I gonna find work first, and clear my debt and get it out of the way, before I can factor any extra plans.
Yup. This is the short-term goal I have set for myself.
Stunningly Gorgeous Y 2:30 PM
